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Sample emails between host and guest

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You may find our sample introduction emails helpful in deciding what to say when you make initial contact. Always list your membership number so that your own listing can be easily identified.

Dear Cass,

My name is Claire and I live in Paris. I recently joined Home Around The World because I have to travel a lot with my job and love the idea of staying in real homes when I travel abroad.

I work in Paris as a design consultant and have recently been appointed to assist a team of architects and designers currently working on some major new buildings in Paris. I am so happy! My new company is sending me to Los Angeles for a week!

The others I am travelling with are all staying in hotels but being lesbian and single I would much rather stay with another lesbian. And as you live so centrally in LA and have a swimming pool, I would be thrilled if you would accept me as your guest.

I am 29 years old, don’t smoke and will probably be out most of the day meeting people associated with work. I hope to enjoy my evenings in Los Angeles and would be very happy to have your advice on where to go to meet others, like me.

I arrive in L.A. on 5th July and leave a week later. I am thinking of travelling up to San Francisco for my last weekend, if I have time.

If you would like me to be your guest, please reply as soon as you can and let me know how much you would like me to pay you for the week.

If you would like to consider a hospitality exchange, look at my own HATW listing I am Member #………….

Hope to hear from you soon.

Claire Laparre



Dear Claire,

Hi from California!

Thank you for your message. Yes, you would be very welcome to come and stay with me at the beginning of July.

I live in a delightful 2-bedroom apartment in the heart of West Hollywood. It’s situated in a beautiful art deco 1920’s building. My guest bedroom is quite large and has its own bathroom. All the apartments are situated around a private courtyard. The apartments are very quiet and most of my neighbors, who are gay, are also my best friends. It’s a very relaxing place to be, after a hard day’s work. On many warm evenings we all unwind around the pool, drinking cocktails, gossiping and having fun! I have sent you a photo of myself, by the pool, drinking a margarita, my favorite cocktail!

As to cost, I would like to charge you $35 per night, if you find that acceptable.

I have never been to Paris and would love to go and suggest that if we enjoy living together, that I think about vacationing with you later this year, when of course, I would repay you, your $35 per night!

Looking forward to hearing from you soon.

Cass

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